APROPROS?
May 25, 2026–HAPPY 85TH, MR. DYLAN
1962 ? 2026 ?
Come senators, congressmen, please heed the call
Don’t stand in the doorway, don’t block up the hall
For he that gets hurt will be he who has stalled
The battle outside ragin’
Will soon shake your windows and rattle your walls
For the times, they are a-changin’
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You fasten the triggers
For the others to fire
Then you set back and watch
When the death count gets higher
You hide in your mansion
As young people’s blood
Flows out of their bodies
And is buried in the mud
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Mama, put my guns in the ground
I can’t shoot them anymore

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“…if God is on our side
He will stop the next war.”
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Quotes from Bob Dylan
War:
“If God is on our side, he’ll stop the next war.” (With God on our Side)
“And his brain has been mismanaged with great skill.” (License to Kill)
“Alright – where do you want this killing done?” (Highway 61)
“Is your money that good? Will it buy forgiveness? Do you think that it could?” (Masters of War)
“Things are breaking up out there, High water everywhere!” (High Water)
“Let’s disconnect the cables, over turn the tables. The place just don’t make sense
to me nor more.” (Senor)
“And I’ll tell it, and think it, and speak it and breath it.” (Hard Rain)
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I’m trying to love my neighbor and do good unto others, But oh, mother, things ain’t going well
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May you have a strong foundation, When the winds of changes shift
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“Bury the rag deep in your face, for now is the time for your tears.” (Hattie Carol)
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Something is happening here, But you don’t know what it is, Do you Mister Jones.
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”Is your money that good? Will it buy forgiveness? Do you think that it could?
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Don’t criticize what you can’t understand.—
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“There’s a big gaping hole in my chest where my heart was,
and a hole in the sky where God used to be.
My American dream fell apart at the seams.
You tell me what it means. You tell me what it means.”
Bob Dylan and Willie Nelson
“…’BACCA,BBQ, BALL GAMES, AND BROWNBAGGIN'”
The recent video PICK UP YOUR BED AND WALK revisits Fike High School’s three state football championships. Russell Rawlings’ book, CYCLONE COUNTY, also explores this scene (Wilson, NC –late 1960’s ).
I wrote PLAY IS WHERE LIFE IS about twenty years ago. The link below includes a chapter on Wilson and Eastern North Carolina, and Atlantic Christian College (now Barton College ), with many comments on this same period of time and some later.
On the link below I have listed several “tales”. I think this is the best chapter I have written, mainly because of all the area’s characters.
https://littlegreenbookoftennis.com/category/h-wilson
SCROLL DOWN
- TEAM SPIRIT
- A SENSE OF HUMOR
- DEPARTMENT CHAIRMAN
- DOC AND PEAHEAD
- HAND WRITING
- HOMER CLOCK
- THE SCAR OF RUSSIA
- GEOMETRY
- RUNS IN THE FAMILY
- THE GYM
- TOP HOT DOG
- THE OLD, OLD GYM
- FROM BOHUNK TO HAWN
- ODE TO THE GYM
- RASSLIN WITH BUDDY
- POSSUM
- ROCK RIDGE UPDATE
- CPR
- DINNER TABLE CONVERSATIONS
- TELEPHONES
- PIER WALKING
- COUNTRY STRIKES AGAIN
- WEDDING PLANS
- THE MAYOR
- DR. HAMLIN
- YOU CAN CALL ME AL
- OLYMPICS BOUND
- BLOCK/CHARGE CALL
- CHARIOTS OF FIRE
- 1984
- COMMON SENSE
- AIN’T IT FUNNY
- HEARING AIDS
- RESUMES
- Wilson-65 years ago
- FIKE HIGH SCHOOL
- Peanuts and tennis
Main blog and all books:
LUDDITE LITERATURE
LUDDITE LITERATURE
I resisted the email, technology world that cropped up at the end of my coaching, teaching career.
We moved to the beach just before winter. I had never cut on my college issued computer. High school typing class was in 1956. Health issues, injuries, age, weather chipped away at my physicality.
I began to “hobby write “. Self-Publishing was possible and I waded in.
Any old person will tell you of the “nightmare of the new age”. Even now.
My seven “books” and 700 blog articles attest to one virtue–VOLUME. And while the process has been a retirement hobby, I haven’t changed my name to Shakes Parham.
Vanity has caused me to wonder “ is it any good ?”
In toto it is a jumbled mess. At 85 years and “ circling the drain “, finding out its worth is beyond me.
Here is a thought. With the galloping advances, will there be a way to edit out the good parts?
There are bigger questions:
Are there large numbers of people like me, who given self publishing, produced some unique period and worthwhile contributions?
- Will an advanced editing tool be developed to glean items of value from this plethora of effort from us Luddites ?
GUEST COMMENT
This clipped from James Haslam
Is The Foreign Student College Tennis Debate Really About Player Development?
Players recruited from outside The US dominate D1 college tennis . This might mean that American tennis is doing something wrong in developing the best players … Or it might mean that in the US, fewer families choose to see the pro tour as the ultimate goal of playing tennis to achieve a better life for their children. Instead they prioritize tennis participation as a pathway to greater health, wellness and career success. In the latter case , it might be concluded that they are doing many things right. No matter what the outlook is , the economic realities of this issue are significant. For those not convinced that the foreign student college tennis issue is primarily about who should be given the opportunity to be a “student” driven by economic allocation , here are some numbers that frame this issue :
There are about 2500 D1 Tennis student athletes in the US with about 2/3 of these athletes or 1675 being foreign students on F-1 or M-1 visas.
When the cost of conducting the program , tuition, books, housing, fees , travel , medical care are broken down and calculated, a conservative estimate is that each student each year receives about $200,000 in value, before NIL monies.
So the cost to the college system yearly we can estimate to be about $335 million dollars before NIL. This means that in aggregate , in D1 tennis alone , four year scholarships cost the system well over one billion dollars. We can further extrapolate by understanding that the median lifetime earnings of a college graduate over just a High School degree is 1.2 million dollars. So each year an astonishing future earnings of over 1 billion dollars are facilitated by the opportunities given to foreign D1 tennis players who graduate each year. Even if we see more conservative numbers we can’t escape that an enormous amount of money is being used to further the educational opportunities of foreign nationals . With team roster’s limited to 10 spots , it’s a zero sum game in which the opportunity for a player outside the US is one less opportunity for a player in the US. As a precedent , enrollment in high school is not guaranteed to non district residents. It is usually evaluated on a case by case basis and the issue is not “fairness” ,”protectionism ” ” player development ” or ” rigorous competition”. It’s the question of how to allocate finite educational resources.
T. Parham: This seems more pertinent than the suggestion that this dilemma can be cured by American teaching pros and coaches.
AMERICAN
Tom Parham: “ In the 70’s a lawyer opined that the then ITCA could limit international college tennis players . The membership voted to do so. The “big boys” threatened to withdraw their membership. Others advised a quota would be found illegal. There was no litigation.
Given the current conservative bent , would now be a time to “screw up some courage”?
Note : Coaches and Athletics Directors aren’t the sole input (IDS 1357 ).
“GORILLA BUREACRATS?” : NATIONALcaa, UNITED STATES ta, USpta, NATIONALfhsaa. Global sports.
Now is the hour.
GOOD GUESS ?
The round of 16 in Men’s NCAA Division I tennis, play today. A quick survey of the team’s starting lineups, excepting Ohio State, feature about 90% international players. Assuming the ones who are starters get the scholarsips, they also get 90% of the grants. And NIL/Portal cash.
BOYS VOLLEYBALL IN NORTH CAROLINA HIGH SCHOOLS
This announcement from THE NORTH CAROLINA HIGH SCHOOL ATHLETIC ASSOCIATION :
Boys’ volleyball, like girls’ flag football, is rapidly increasing in popularity in some parts of the state. The board voted 10-7 to add the sport in the spring of 2027. Tyson said Queen’s University in Charlotte has been reserved by the N.C. Volleyball Coaches Association to host a championship with proceeds benefitting the NCHSAA.
Ten years ago, there were four boys teams playing, according to Sarah Conklin, the Weddington High club coach and a longtime organizer of the sport in North Carolina. Today, there are more than 120 schools playing, or about a quarter of the NCHSAA’s membership.
Last year, 36 states sanctioned boys’ volleyball, according to the American Volleyball Coaches Association, and the NFHS reports that participation in the sport has grown — from 43,000 athletes nationally in 2005-06 to nearly 96,000 in the 2024-25 school year.
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Great Decision
Statement from the Intercollegiate Tennis Association (ITA) Regarding the State of College Athletics, Recent Program Eliminations, & International Student-Athletes
This is the link to the ITA Statement
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1MWiaejUXfubelwdH2JQD4bzwSrVJ3_MxWhQq8Qa-OWM/edit?tab=t.0
Author’s comments on specific points are in RED
One topic that has received increased attention is the role of international student-athletes in college tennis. This is a complex matter and requires more nuanced public discourse.
This is not a new problem, nor is it limited to tennis.
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There are presently approximately 20,000 college tennis student-athletes. It should be noted that without international student-athletes, many programs would struggle to field full rosters. Efforts to limit their participation risk undermining competitiveness, reducing institutional revenue, and ultimately threatening the viability of programs themselves. This is not a hypothetical concern; this is playing out in real time. Recent developments in Idaho, for example, underscore these broader concerns. Athletic directors and coaches across the state strongly opposed proposed legislation (ID S1357) that would have capped international student-athlete scholarships at 10%. Ultimately, the legislation did not pass, but it highlighted how policy decisions can directly threaten the viability of college tennis programs. Efforts to cap international student athlete participation in any U.S. college sport may also run afoul of existing federal and state laws and regulations, risking increased litigation and costs.
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THE HEART OF THE MATTER: SCHOLARSHIPS FOR AMERICANS
Is it illegal or unreasonable to award a percentage of scholarships to our youngsters first?
The issue has never been litigated: ( “…may run afoul” and “…risking litigation” )
For 50 plus years any allotment or quota that saved scholarships was dismissed by a lawsuit feared; a threat based on “ discrimination based on national origin. “
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Age disparities, particularly cases involving significantly older incoming international student-athletes, have drawn understandable review. The NCAA is expected to address eligibility rules in the near future, and moving forward, there must be a fair and consistent framework in which all student-athletes, both domestic and international, compete on equal footing.
The age issue is another variable that hampers our kids in no small way. It will soon dawn on other global sports, most significantly Basketball, they are also in the crosshairs.
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For those who care about the future of college tennis, there is also a role to play. Supporting local programs through attendance, advocacy, and financial contributions helps ensure these opportunities remain available for future generations. Sustained visibility and investment are critical to the long-term health of our sport.
These variables are directly related to American children., parents and taxpayers–the very people excluded.
Isn’t it about time some of our organizations screw up their courage and use their time, money and efforts to make these facts available to American
parents and players. CHANGE THE TERMS AND RE-TRY THE ISSUE!
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Mr. Rudy Washington, Editor-in-Chief The BCA Journal (BLACK COACHES ASSOCIATION)
P. O. Box 4040
Culver City, CA 90231-4040
Dear M.r Washington:
I’ve coached college tennis for 30-plus years and I have been dismayed by the preponderance of international players who have usurped many tennis scholarships from American youngsters.
There seems to be a trend toward this in basketball. Has the BCA addressed the danger to American student athletes this poses, in particular college basketball. Should there be a limit to this?
If your Journal has addressed this issue, please let me know. It seems basketball is a game that this should concern.
ETP:1h
Sincerely,
Tom Parham
Men’s Tennis Coach
March 9, 1998
“…you gotta know when to fold em. “
Last week more colleges and universities announced dropping varsity tennis teams than anytime in memory. Several reasons were:
- Expense 2. Title IX 3. The new rules (Portal/NIL ) 4. Non Revenue, etc.
Years back I realized this–
“I wonder how many Athletic Directors silently came to a conclusion similar to this? 1. All sports are counted in the standings for our ‘Conference Cup’? 2. We are in a conference with mostly good tennis teams with all foreign players. And we give the 8 girls and 4 and 1/2 boys grants to internationals. 3. I can find a better place for that size of budget.
Like a lot of sports, many tennis teams dominate winning to the DYNASTY level. Those programs become the model.
Many conference members have followed this path to the point that almost all the members of most conferences feature 90% of scholarships going to international players.
Some hard facts emerge:
- If all members do this, only one team wins. Often the same teams win repeatedly.
- It is like a poker game where you always ante up but never win.
This may be OK for bragging rights and egos of the oil barons and tech billionaires, but last week several “folded”.